Xmas is so wonderfully hyped up, bulking with obligations, piling up the expectations and hanging in there to go through the motions, just like last year. There should be a specific word for Xmas stress.
I love observing what people put themselves through. I am not bothered about Xmas. Possibly because I haven’t grown up with the hassle that I see here in the UK. I like Xmas; I love to have the people around me who I want to be with, do nice things, have lovely food and enjoy the days for what they are: two holiday days to be spent in a positive way. But for us no Xmas stress.
Christmas is so stressful
If you are hooked to hosting a stressful Xmas, here are some tips to make it even better:
- Don’t prepare – do food and present shopping on the 23 and 24 December
- Set high expectations – make sure you aim to be the super domestic goddess
- Invite more people than you can handle – it’s going to be great if half of them can’t sit down or don’t have a glass
- Invite people who can’t stand each other – make sure you talk about sensitive subjects and let them have heated and argumentative discussions
- Offer as much sugary stuff as you can – this will make even the calmest person overexcited
- Change your plans all the time and give out mixed messages about dress code, timings, bring a bottle or maybe not, no presents or only big ones – when nobody knows what is going on, including you as the hostess, it will be guaranteed chaotic
- Have some sleepless nights – that way you are tired and irritable, which will greatly contribute to some extra stress
I wish you all the best and hope you and guests survive.
Luckily, there are always post-Xmas holidays to recover from this year’s Xmas stress.