The Nightmare of Co-Parenting With a Narcissist and How to Change From Victim to Victor
TV Show From Victim to Victor episode 4: Co-parenting with a narcissist In this show I spent time with Vicki to discuss the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissist. Vicki got recently divorced and notices how her 16 and 19 year old children are used and abused by...
Challenges and Opportunities in Later Life: Victim or Victor?
TV show From Victim to Victor episode 2 In this show I spent time with Gina Farrar, founder of the successful podcast Feminine Roadmap, public speaker and designer of the course ‘Your Midlife Masterpiece Plan’. Gina’s work is aimed to support women to create a happy...
Escaping and Healing From a Narcissistic Mother
TV show From Victim to Victor episode 1 In this first show I shared my experiences of narcissistic abuse and the journey to recovery. A few key snippets are covered in this blogpost. To see the full show, click here. Whoever grew up with a narcissistic...
My TV Show ‘From Victim to Victor’ Live On Tuesdays Via BoldBrave TV
Every Tuesday I am hosting my own TV show 'From Victim to Victor'. It was hard to believe when I listened to John Kelly, producer at Bold&Brave TV over the phone on 20 November 2021. He told me he loved my knowledge, my accent...
FREE TASTER MONTH Online interactive group course Narcissism: Know, Feel, Deal, Heal
A few thoughts about narcissistic abuse Narcissistic abuse can only take place if the narcissist finds their enabler. The enabler becomes the victim and the abuse becomes a reality. If there is no enabler, the narcissist can behave in any way they want, but their...
Narcissism self-help guide: Rulebook of a Narcissist
Daily dealing with a narcissist? Regular interactions? Can’t escape communicating with them? Then here is the help you need. My new self-help book is written for the ones who are keen to find ways of handling their narcissist without losing themselves. Are you looking...
What is PTSD?
Brian was a great guy. Liked by most people and half of the time quite social and animated. The other half of the time he was grumpy, snappy and disengaged. That was the time when he felt on edge, hyperalert and unsafe. As if he was back in the army, patrolling, on...
Narcissistic abuse recovery coaching
Have you suffered narcissistic abuse? Hoping but wondering if and how to heal? Ready to start your recovery process? When it comes to healing from narcissistic abuse we are talking about a journey of transformation. Learning how to change the focus of attention from...
The power of values and why you will never feel connected to a narcissist
Values block or encourage real connections. Sharing values is important in interpersonal relationships. I heard several people breaking up friendships over supporting and not supporting Trump. I have people in my life who I love dearly, but I can’t discuss political...
Getting frustrated in an argument but don’t know why?
If you feel often misunderstood and are left frustrated, irritated and angry after an argument or discussion, find your answer below. How a phone call made me want to bash my head against the wall A few years ago, there was a very exciting final at Wimbledon – Andy...
Education on narcissism via Expert Profile Magazine
Narcissistic abuse recovery coach When I was asked to be interviewed and tell 'your story' for the edition of Inspirational Stories' in the winter edition of Expert Profiles, I didn't think for one moment and said YES. It is important for me to educate others about...
Am I in a relationship with a narcissist?
Narcissists are very good at masking their narcissistic traits. They usually create a campaign where their victims are being gradually exposed to their traits. What can be seen as a little nuisance or an occasional outburst turns into a systematic exposure, which...
Press Release: From Victim to Victor: “Narcissism Survival Guide” Becomes Amazon Bestseller and receives an award
Written by Dr Mariette Jansen not only from her expertise as a psychotherapist and life coach but as someone who suffered narcissistic abuse from her mother for almost sixty years, ‘From Victim to Victor: Narcissism Survival Guide’ is exactly what it says on the...
How a narcissist makes their victims become like them
A narcissist is aiming to crush the personality of their victim. They don’t want people around them who are critical, opinionated or in any way in the frame of mind to challenge them. They want their victim to feed them the Narcissistic Supply, which means they get...
7 typical text messages from a narcissist
In this article, you will discover 7 typical text messages from a narcissist, why they use this type of communication and how it can affect you. Narcissists aim to unsettle their victims in all sort of ways and text messaging is an excellent tool for that. It offers...
Narcissism explained in a fairy tale
Narcissism explained in a fairy tale: 'The throne, the queen and the polishers' Once upon a time, there was a girl who thought she was the one who deserved the best. Always. She also decided to make it her life purpose to get the best, even if it was at the expense of...
The difference between self-love and self-care
Self-love vs self-care Agnes was not happy. Over the years she had read loads of self-help books – working on her ‘shelf’-development – and also went through a few therapists. She knew exactly what she needed. It was loving herself. The problem was that she didn’t...
Why I wrote ‘From Victim to Victor’
Book on overcoming narcissism On 21 June 2020 (solstice), I launched my book ‘From Victim to Victor’, the narcissism survival guide. And below I started my speech by explaining what the bird on the cover symbolized for me: freedom. ‘The bird in the cage has managed to...
My narcissistic mother is a nasty piece
I am the daughter of a narcissist. Narcissists are not just unpleasant. There are a lot of those around. And some of them are really clever at hiding how unpleasant they are. When they want to make a good impression, they put on a mask, which they take off when it is...
Why a narcissist is an excellent salesperson
Have you ever come across a narcissistic salesperson? One that doesn’t let you go? Who came up with another reason why you should buy? And who didn’t really listen to what you had to say? But went on and on and on and on… And maybe you even bought from them. Got so...
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