Scape Goat, Black Sheep, Golden Child Or Invisible: The Narcs Trickery To Alienate
Narcs aim to confuse, in order to control. They aim to spark and trigger you, in order for you to feel small, so they feel bigger. And when someone is a unit of one, they are much easier to control, then when they are part of a group. The narc will do anything to...
When You Are The Trophy For A Narcissist
Narcs will use people for their benefits. It is never about you, it is always about them. When you are shining, they want you to shine your light on them, they will bask in it and make it all about them. They will never allow you to outshine them, so they take your...
Unspark The Narc who will suck you dry
'Unspark The Narc' Hints and Tips on How to deal with a Narc: click here to watch the series. Learn how to take the spark out of their nasty actions, keeping yourself safe and sane. Episode 1: I will suck you dry Narcs spark your upset in different ways. One of their...
Unspark The Narc – New video series on YouTube
Tips on how to take control of your narcissist, how to take the spark out of the narc and step into your power. Here is the introduction video. Did you know that 1 in 5 is a narcissist? That means you will know a few…….. Who are they? Narcissists are people you...
Counter-Parenting With A Narcissist
Drama guaranteed. Frustration unavoidable. Anger and headbanging highly likely occurrences. When you are faced raising your children with the interference of the other parent, a narcissist, you are in for a treat of incredibly difficult situations. Because narcissist...
How Narcissists Manipulate With Words
Narcissists are known for their manipulation in both words and actions. It is all about control and confusion and once you understand the meaning of their words, you become less susceptible to their manipualtion. Below are a few translations of what they say and what...
What To Expect From Your Narcissistic Spouse During A Separation
It is not an easy process to separate from a narcissistic spouse. They often see the divorce as a destoolment from their imaginary throne. This threatens their very essence as the looming reality of losing control over the person closest to them is never welcome. This...
The Nightmare of Co-Parenting With a Narcissist
TV Show From Victim to Victor episode 4: Co-parenting with a narcissist In this show I spent time with Vicki to discuss the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissist. Vicki got recently divorced and notices how her 16 and 19 year old children are used and abused by...
Challenges and Opportunities in Later Life: Victim or Victor?
TV show From Victim to Victor episode 2 In this show I spent time with Gina Farrar, founder of the successful podcast Feminine Roadmap, public speaker and designer of the course ‘Your Midlife Masterpiece Plan’. Gina’s work is aimed to support women to create a happy...
Escaping and Healing From a Narcissistic Mother
TV show From Victim to Victor episode 1 In this first show I shared my experiences of narcissistic abuse and the journey to recovery. A few key snippets are covered in this blogpost. To see the full show, click here. Whoever grew up with a narcissistic...
My TV Show ‘From Victim to Victor’ Live On Tuesdays Via BoldBrave TV
Every Tuesday I am hosting my own TV show 'From Victim to Victor'. It was hard to believe when I listened to John Kelly, producer at Bold&Brave TV over the phone on 20 November 2021. He told me he loved my knowledge, my accent...
FREE TASTER MONTH Online interactive group course Narcissism: Know, Feel, Deal, Heal
A few thoughts about narcissistic abuse Narcissistic abuse can only take place if the narcissist finds their enabler. The enabler becomes the victim and the abuse becomes a reality. If there is no enabler, the narcissist can behave in any way they want, but their...
Narcissism self-help guide: Rulebook of a Narcissist
Daily dealing with a narcissist? Regular interactions? Can’t escape communicating with them? Then here is the help you need. My new self-help book is written for the ones who are keen to find ways of handling their narcissist without losing themselves. Are you looking...
What is PTSD?
Brian was a great guy. Liked by most people and half of the time quite social and animated. The other half of the time he was grumpy, snappy and disengaged. That was the time when he felt on edge, hyperalert and unsafe. As if he was back in the army, patrolling, on...
Narcissistic abuse recovery coaching
Have you suffered narcissistic abuse? Hoping but wondering if and how to heal? Ready to start your recovery process? When it comes to healing from narcissistic abuse we are talking about a journey of transformation. Learning how to change the focus of attention from...
The power of values and why you will never feel connected to a narcissist
Values block or encourage real connections. Sharing values is important in interpersonal relationships. I heard several people breaking up friendships over supporting and not supporting Trump. I have people in my life who I love dearly, but I can’t discuss political...
Getting frustrated in an argument but don’t know why?
If you feel often misunderstood and are left frustrated, irritated and angry after an argument or discussion, find your answer below. How a phone call made me want to bash my head against the wall A few years ago, there was a very exciting final at Wimbledon – Andy...
Education on narcissism via Expert Profile Magazine
Narcissistic abuse recovery coach When I was asked to be interviewed and tell 'your story' for the edition of Inspirational Stories' in the winter edition of Expert Profiles, I didn't think for one moment and said YES. It is important for me to educate others about...
Am I in a relationship with a narcissist?
Narcissists are very good at masking their narcissistic traits. They usually create a campaign where their victims are being gradually exposed to their traits. What can be seen as a little nuisance or an occasional outburst turns into a systematic exposure, which...
Press Release: From Victim to Victor: “Narcissism Survival Guide” Becomes Amazon Bestseller and receives an award
Written by Dr Mariette Jansen not only from her expertise as a psychotherapist and life coach but as someone who suffered narcissistic abuse from her mother for almost sixty years, ‘From Victim to Victor: Narcissism Survival Guide’ is exactly what it says on the...
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