Written by Dr Mariette Jansen not only from her expertise as a psychotherapist and life coach but as someone who suffered narcissistic abuse from her mother for almost sixty years, ‘From Victim to Victor: Narcissism Survival Guide’ is exactly what it says on the...
A narcissist is aiming to crush the personality of their victim. They don’t want people around them who are critical, opinionated or in any way in the frame of mind to challenge them. They want their victim to feed them the Narcissistic Supply, which means they get...
Narcissism explained in a fairy tale: ‘The throne, the queen and the polishers’ Once upon a time, there was a girl who thought she was the one who deserved the best. Always. She also decided to make it her life purpose to get the best, even if it was at...
Book on overcoming narcissism On 21 June 2020 (solstice), I launched my book ‘From Victim to Victor’, the narcissism survival guide. And below I started my speech by explaining what the bird on the cover symbolized for me: freedom. ‘The bird in the cage has managed to...
Are you sometimes hit by surprise? Do you think ‘I thought I was over this’? Are you familiar with the pain? Lars was a lovely 39 years old man, who loved his job as a manager and was loved and supported by his team. He had a positive attitude and was an excellent...
Top ways to deal with stress Interesting times, where we are thrown around in uncertainty. And no one can escape. No money, location, job title or importance can keep you safe. It all comes down to washing hands, keeping a distance, accept, love and trust. It might...
