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When talking doesn’t help to solve your relationship issues

Sometimes it feels that there is no change in a situation in your relationship. And you feel desperate. Do you argue about the same thing time and time? Are you not being heard or better, not being listened to? Frustrated

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Is your relationship oozing love or are you undermining your happiness?

Human beings are pack animals and we are always on the look-out for a romantic relationship. It is natural and instinctive. It is a way of seeking happiness and fulfilment. But, being in a relationship can also be the biggest

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Could do better – a seriously negative and demoralising remark

How Polly got in the way of her own happiness. Polly was humming when she opened the letterbox. Xmas had been great, everybody was back into the swing of work and school and the new year looked all fresh and

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Darling column about Empty Nest Syndrome

The academic year is almost halfway and new students are feeling more at ease in their new situation. For parents and families it should be similar. But for some it is wishful thinking. It needs time and adaptation to find

Posted in Confidence, Mums, relationships

Misunderstood in your relationship?

Lydia Lydia wasn’t too happy in her relationship. Lately, she experienced some challenges at work and was keen to discuss these with Andrew, her boyfriend. But whenever she started to talk about it, it felt as if he switched off.

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