Agnes was not happy. Over the years had read loads of self-help books – working on her ‘shelf’-development – and also went through a few therapists. She knew exactly what she needed. The problem was that she didn’t know how to create it. And that frustration only...
Suffering from Imposter Syndrome (IS) is nerve-racking and energy eating. And the new Zoom culture makes it even tougher. ‘Imposter syndrome is a psychological pattern in which one doubts one’s accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being...
Negativity is a low vibrational energy. It doesn’t contribute to happiness, lightness and joy. How can you spot negativity? Last week I overheard a conversation from my neighbour’s balcony between two friends, Penny and Nina. P: ‘Hi darling, so nice to talk to you’ N:...
Are you sometimes hit by surprise? Do you think ‘I thought I was over this’? Are you familiar with the pain? Lars was a lovely 39 years old man, who loved his job as a manager and was loved and supported by his team. He had a positive attitude and was an excellent...
Trying to understand others instead of understanding yourself is often an avoidance strategy to keep yourself safe. Safe from pain, confrontations and having to deal with difficult issues. It also offers a sense of security, being able to predict other’s behaviour....
Doris and David went on a course in clay pottery together. It was a 13-week course and each Wednesday night they took off together. The first night of class, the teacher explained what defined a perfect pot and announced that he was dividing the class into two groups,...
